what are some website that allow you to submit your website to have people advertise on them? Or a site that I can look at other website that i can advertise on?
Be active on other forums. Don't directly advertise your site unless it allowed, or else it will be considered spam. However, a simple signature is usually fine, as long as it goes with the rules.
Ok ha. I know there are some sites tho as well? buyads.com or something is one any others?
There are many more options if you want to buy ads. google projectwonderful. It's an ad network and best for gaming sites. Worth a look.