I'm using 9999mb.com as the server. For some reason, I'm unable to connect to the server with my FTP. I created a database and username. Whenever I try to connect to the server, it D/cs after a few seconds. Can someone plz explain to me how to get the files onto the server? Btw, I'm using flashfxp
Sorry, the only thing I can suggest is that you contact your host about the ftp problems. They'll probably be able to sort it out to you. As an alternative, you can try SmartFTP. Also try messing around with the settings by turning off passive, and setting it to active, etc, etc.
I tried using SmartFTP, but now the error message says "An established connection was aborted by the software in your host machine". What should I do now?
Your best bet would be to contact your host as Tikitiki suggested. Since this isn't an issue with MyBB, we can't do anything on our end.